God Does NOT Care About Gay Marriage!

So, I’ve had several folks ask me lately what I think about the whole gay marriage thing with President Obama.  I’ll be honest, those who ask me usually don’t care for my response.  I said it right there in the title.  I’m guessing that will probably frustrate some of the folks who may read this.  No doubt all those who are ready to go picket at the lawn of the White House won’t like my opinion.  But, I’m telling you… God really doesn’t care about President Obama stating his support of gay marriage.  Can I tell you what God cares about?  How about what God is disappointed in?

God is disappointed in Christians all over the world who won’t even share their faith with their neighbors.  Sure, we’ll sign a petition.  We’ll plaster Facebook with our thoughts about Obama.  Maybe we’ll actually even get out and vote this year.  But, for some odd reason, we won’t share the greatest thing we could ever share with a friend.

You realize this is exactly the Evil One’s tactics, right!?  He knows that if he can get your focus on the president and politics… then you’ll miss an opportunity right in front of your nose to makes waves in the Kingdom.  You can argue with me as much as you want.  But I do not believe God really cares whether gay marriage is legalized in America or not.  What God cares about is whether you and I are willing to share Christ with homosexuals.

When is the last time you paused your petition to build a relationship?

Jesus said time after time that the second most important commandant next to loving God with all your heart is to “love your neighbor as yourself.”  The problem is that I want to define who exactly is my neighbor.  I want to define who I like personally.  And quite frankly, there’s too many of us “Christians” who are unwilling to accept a homosexual as my neighbor.  As a follower of Christ, you’re still called and commanded to love them as your neighbor.  It doesn’t mean that you are accepting the lifestyle they are living.  It doesn’t mean that you are supporting President Obama and his take on gay marriage.  What it does mean is that you are willing to OVERLOOK their stance and their lifestyle… all so you may have the opportunity to share Christ with them.  You see, if we as followers of Christ would spend the same amount of time and energy sharing Christ with others that we do going out of our way to voice our disagreement… our country probably wouldn’t be in the shape it is in today.  God is more concerned about complacent Christians than he is about legalized gay marriage throughout our country.

Here’s the question… Which have you spoken more about today… President Obama, politics and/or gay marriage… Or, the love and grace of Christ?  If it’s not the latter then I would challenge you to re-focus.

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

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Are You A Legend?

First, before I talk about Legends, check out what’s happening at Christ’s Church…

  • 2 baptisms this past Sunday; 1 this upcoming Sunday!
  • 3 re-dedications this past Sunday
  • 11 new partners joined the church week before last!
  • Over 30 people attended the SHAPE seminar this past Sunday who are partnering with Christ’s Church in over 30 different areas of service.
  • THIS Sunday is Mother’s Day & Family Portrait Day!  (Who did you invite?)
  • We hired a Family Pastor who will start at Christ’s Church in June!

***Also, look for a new and exciting summer quarter of small groups.  It’s different than anything we’ve ever done at Christ’s Church before!!!

Legends of AwesomenessNow, on to legends!  I believe that every person who has ever been born has the potential to become a legend!  That means YOU!!!  I believe some are born… yet others are made.  But what goes into the making of a legend?  What are the characteristics of a legend?  Well, for six weeks beginning this Sunday we’ll discover many of those attributes as we kick off a new message series called “Legends of Awesomeness.”  Check out the legends we’re gonna learn from…

 

  • May 13th:   Esther
  • May 20th:   Abraham
  • May 27th:   Noah
  • June 3rd:    Paul
  • June 10th:  David
  • June 17th:  Moses

We will learn from each one of these legends and how God used them to impact His kingdom.  Want a sneak peek into this Sunday and the first “Legend Virtue”?  Here ya go…

This story of Esther is actually where we find the main, overarching scripture for this entire Legends of Awesomeness message series.  We will revisit this each week and it’s found in Esther.

Esther 4:14 (NLT)  -  14 If you keep quiet at a time like this, deliverance and relief for the Jews will arise from some other place, but you and your relatives will die. Who knows if perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?”

Friends, whether a legend is born… or whether a legend is made… I believe that…

A legend is one who RELENTLESSLY seizes every opportunity to make a DIFFERENCE!

You would be right on the mark to describe Esther as a woman of strength and dignity.  The name Esther literally means… Star.  And a star lives for such a time as this!  Do you know that you are alive today… in this moment… in this place… for such a time as this?  God has a purpose for you.  The question is… will you allow Him to make you a legend?

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

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You’re Not Growing In Your Faith If…

How do you grow in your faith?  Any number of things probably just came to mind.  I was recently talking with a good friend who was visiting from out of town.  He shared with me that for Lent this year he’s giving up listening to his pastor’s sermons.  (WHAT?  Are they really that bad?  If so, why are you going to that church!?)  Naturally that bothered me.  There’s got red flags all over that.  The natural follow-up question is… how are you going to grow as a follower of Christ?  Isn’t that our main source of growth?  I just gotta tell you, as a preacher, that’s a heavy weight to bear!  The fact is this, it doesn’t matter who your pastor is nor how dynamic of a speaker he may be… if you are relying solely on his message from Sunday morning for spiritual growth, then your growth will be minimal (especially if your pastor’s growth is minimal!).  You need to be reading your Bible throughout the week.  You need to be hanging out with other followers of Christ.  There’s one area that you may not realize, though.  When it comes to growing in your faith the fact is this…

If you’re not sharing your faith… you’re not growing in your faith!

That’s right.  As you share your faith more and more, your own personal faith grows.  It makes sense when you consider the #1 reason why Christians do not share their faith.  The #1 reason we don’t share our faith is because we have not truly allowed the love of Christ to penetrate our own hearts.  Yeah, we accepted Christ.  Yeah, we repented of our sins.  You might have gotten dunked under water and was baptized.  But those were just the motions and we’ve never truly allowed the love and the grace and the mercy of Christ to change who we are.  The result is we don’t feel the urgency to share with those we know who are lost because it’s never been urgent to us.  It’s not real.

So, let me ask you a question.  If you were to truly allow Christ to penetrate your heart, would your life look any differently?  I know one thing.  I know your personal savior would become your public savior!  See, for some reason in the church we have gotten this perception that my faith is a private issue between God and me.  Why would we ever think that?

Jesus died on the cross PUBLICLY!  Take a stroll through the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke or John and you’ll find that every time Jesus called someone to him, he did it in PUBLIC!  Our faith might be a personal issue… but it’s not a private issue.  Jesus is not your personal savior.  The Bible says that Jesus died “once and for all.”  One time… for all people… for all sins.

One thing I tell folks over and over again is this… You alone are responsible for your own spiritual growth.  And let me tell you something, if you want to jump leaps and bounds in your faith… share it!

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

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The Legacy Of One Man… (Brynn Grieve)

In our world today, we don’t often recognize the impact of one man.  We don’t typically honor the one who invests in another.  Sure, we hear everyday about everyone in Hollywood.  We hear about the athlete or the politician.  We hear all the gossip.  But how often do you see with your very own eyes someone who has taken it upon himself to invest in hundreds, possibly thousands of others?

I witnessed a man this past Friday morning who’s life defines the word “mentor.”  Brynn Grieve retired from the United States Navy this past Friday morning, April 20th.  He served 26 years.  Through numerous times of separation while at sea, the support of his wife and daughter always persevered.  He’s one of the founders of Christ’s Church Camden.  He’s one of my best friends.  One that I will never forget… for many reasons!  (Those of you who know Brynn, know exactly what I’m talking about!)  Throughout my life I’ve only had the honor of knowing 2 other men like Brynn that I’ve called my best friend.  Little did I know that he was intentionally using our friendship to invest in my life… to teach me invaluable leadership lessons… to keep me fueled and encouraged throughout the valleys of ministry.  It’s all clear now.  Well, I say he was intentional.  However, I believe it’s just part of his DNA.  It’s who he is.  It’s what he does.  It’s very rare that you find someone in this world with the same perspective on life as Brynn.  Isn’t it amazing to think of the kind of legacy that one man can leave!?

It seems that our culture has forgotten the necessity of mentorship.  We have gotten overly focussed on me, myself and I.  Oh wait, now that I think about it, I guess we have not forgotten the value of mentorship.  It’s just that we don’t realize that we’re mentoring the next generation to be focussed on me, myself and I.  Obviously, the ultimate mentor was Jesus Christ.  Take a stroll through the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke or John and you’ll see example after example of how Jesus invested in others.  He taught with words, parables and most importantly with his life.  Jesus actually said this…

John 15:13 - Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 

As I watched the crew of the Rhode Island rise to their feet to honor Brynn and his 26 years of service, I realized that Brynn didn’t just take that verse to heart for a few select people… nor just for his wife and daughter… nor just for the crew of his boat.  Brynn would have laid down his life for our entire country.  Even further, now that he and his family plan to enter the mission field full-time.  As a result of this one man’s life, his crew is stronger… his family is stronger… our church is stronger.

Whether Brynn realizes it or not, I believe that he woke up everyday of his life asking the question… how can I make someone’s life better today.  You ever ask yourself that question?  Who will you invest in today?  Yes, many folks ask how we can make this world a better place and I believe Brynn has answered that question for us.

The best way to change the world is one life at a time!

Thank you Brynn for your service.  Thank you for having the vision for a new kind of church in Camden County.  This world is a better place because of you!

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

 

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Another HUGE Sunday…

I know I say it every week, but I LOVE MY CHURCH!!!  Week after week, I am constantly amazed at how God works.  This past Sunday was no different.  Check this out…

  • Other than Easter it was another record attendance (46.6% growth in 2012 alone!)
  • We saw 19 children be dedicated to the Lord!
  • We saw 75 couples renew their wedding vows before God and the church!
  • Nearly 100 newcomers attended Party w/ the Pastors!
  • This coming Sunday we will see 2 more lives take the step of baptism in their faith journey!

We are seeing God work in amazing ways week after week after week.  We also kicked off a new message series this past Sunday called “Undressed: Uncovering the secrets of sex, self-image and successful relationships.”  Here are some highlights…

  • If you’re ever wondering what the right choice is when it comes to your marriage… JUST STAY MARRIED!
  • Only you can set the spiritual direction for your marriage!
  • The average divorce rate for couples who go to church together, pray together, and get involved in their church rather than just attending church every once in a while drops from 50% all the way down to 9%!
  • You must be intentional about scheduling time with your spouse!
  • When you said “I Do” YOUR time became OUR time!
  • If you want to have a happy marriage then you need to see your spouse better than your spouse sees him/herself.
  • Stop trying to fix your spouse and start celebrating your spouse!
  • You must daily surrender your marriage to Christ!
  • Marriage should reflect the death, burial and resurrection of Christ.  You must die to your needs, wants, desires and allow Christ to resurrect you and your spouse together as ONE!

So, where are you at in your marriage?  Has it been stagnant… the same for weeks, months or years?  Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over and over again… and expecting different results.  Many of us treat our marriages no differently.  If you want a different marriage then you’ll need to treat it differently!  Surrender your marriage to Christ today.  Let go of trying to control your spouse and trying to control your marriage.  The irony is when you try to control them… the odds are you’ll lose them.  Make the commitment today to JUST STAY MARRIED!

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

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Easter Reflections… WOW!!!!!

WOW!  What an amazing Easter weekend.  The final numbers are in and we saw, once again, God work in amazing ways.  I want to personally say thank you to everyone for being a part.  I especially want to say thank you to all of our partners who stepped up to the plate to make this past weekend so special by serving.  I LOVE MY CHURCH!!!  Check this out…

  • The Good Friday Service of Confession saw nearly 200 people
  • We saw 1032 people come through our doors Easter Sunday.
  • Nearly 30 re-dedications.
  • 1 Baptism
  • Thousands of seeds planted symbolizing our new life in Christ.

Or, how about this…  Check out where God has brought Christ’s Church over just the past 3 years.  Easter 2009 attendance was 175.  Easter 2010 attendance was 444.  Easter 2011 attendance was 644.  This year… 1032.  I wonder what God will do over the next twelve months!

Here are a few highlights from this past Sunday’s Resurrection message…

  • You cannot separate WHO Jesus is from faith in WHAT He can do!
  • Through Christ you can conquer your grave!
  • There are only 2 circumstances by which you can define yourself… You are either dead or you are alive!
  • When you’re dead you’re helpless… but you’re not hopeless!
  • If you’re dead… Jesus just happens to still be in the business of raising the dead back to life!

Finally, let’s do everything we can to get the word out about our new message series beginning this Sunday.  It’s called “Undressed: Uncovering the secrets of sex, self-image and successful relationships.”  Here’s what we’ll be studying the next 4 weeks…

  • April 15th:   Marriage Secrets
  • April 22nd:  Dating Secretes
  • April 29th:   Sex Secrets
  • May 6th:     Self-Image Secrets

Tweet it… plaster your Facebook wall with it… Let’s do whatever it takes to find every lost person in Camden County.  Cause…

Found People… Find People!

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

PS. Don’t forget about our upcoming CCU on Sunday, April 22nd.  We want to equip you with the confidence you need to tell all your friends about Jesus and invite them to church.  It’s FREE, lunch is provided along with childcare.  To RSVP, simply contact the church office or mark your connection card this Sunday.  It’s not football season… so, there’s really no excuse to miss this one!  I hope to see you there!!!

 

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Day 2… The Day Of Liminality…

Can you imagine what must have been going through the hearts and minds of the disciples on day 2?  Yesterday they just experienced whom they believed to be the messiah… be killed.  Have you ever felt that hopeless?  24 hours ago you were overflowing with hope.  You had every reason to believe that you were in the clear with your circumstances…

  • The doctor cleared you of all traces of cancer…
  • You got a new job and are no longer employed…
  • Your spouse said she wanted to make things work…

You viewed life through a different lens than now.  Now, 24 hours later… all hope has been crucified.  The doctor was wrong.  The job isn’t what you expected.  She finally said, “I quit.”  What you thought was the light at the end of the tunnel yesterday was actually the headlight of an oncoming train.

Do you know what it means to be in a liminal state of life?  A wise man taught me this just a couple of years ago.  The state of liminality is a state of between.  You are neither here nor there.  For example, your wife calls you on your way home from work and she asks where you are.  You are neither at work nor yet at home.  You are in a state of liminality.  You’re probably asking what’s my point.  Well, here ya go… and do not miss this, friends!!!  Many times when we are at that point when we have lost all hope… the point where we truly are is a point of liminality.  Yeah, yesterday was better than today.  But you have no idea with tomorrow may bring!

That’s exactly where the disciples found themselves.  They thought the road had come to an end when in reality they were just sitting in a rest stop!  Waiting and wondering.  How do we know this?  Well, cause when Jesus shows up on day 3 they think they’re looking at a ghost!

Luke 24:36-37  —  36 While they were still talking about this, Jesus himself stood among them and said to them, “Peace be with you.”  37 They were startled and frightened, thinking they saw a ghost.

So, the question is this… how will you live your life throughout this day of liminality.  It’s the day when you struggle to see any hope… but yet a day filled with it!

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

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My Heart Breaks…

Today, my heart breaks!  I read a blog by Jud Whilhite this morning quoting the words of the poet Kahil Gibran. Check out what he wrote on Good Friday…

“On this day of each year, the philosophers leave their dark caves, and the thinkers their cold cells, and the poets their imaginary arbors, and all stand reverently upon that silent mountain, listening to the voice of a young man saying of His killers, ‘Oh Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing.’

Today, my heart breaks!  Day after day after day I stumble, I fail, I fall.  But I honestly don’t know I could claim that I don’t know what I’m doing.  You see, I know of my own personal desires… yet I still give into them.  I know of my own pride… yet I still allow it to dictate my actions.  I know of my tendency to treat my wife and my daughter with much less respect than they deserve… yet I still treat them in that way.  I know of my drive to place my job as the top priority in my life… yet I still do.  I know how I lose my temper, I envy, I lust, I long for fame.  I know me… and yet I remain the same.  Today, my heart breaks!

It was today, about 2000 years ago that my Savior didn’t just die.  He didn’t pass away in his sleep.  It was not a quick death.  It was slow.  It was painful.  It wasn’t just death that he faced.  He was ridiculed.  Mocked.  Laughed at.  Stripped naked in public.  People spit in His face.  And what did He say?  “Forgive them…”

Today, my heart breaks.  It is unlike any other day in the history of the universe.  Yet today is a day that most of us will treat like every other.  May your heart break today!  May you begin to fully grasp what Jesus Christ endured for you!

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

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What Would You Do With $640 Million Dollars?

No doubt if you have seen any news, or been online, you’ve probably heard that the mega-millions lottery jackpot for tonight, March 30th, is an estimated $640 Million.  I have never seen such a large jackpot.  That is crazy insane right there!  If you won and took the one-time payout it would be over $460 million before taxes.  What in the world would you do with that kind of money?

As a pastor, I have to believe that you would tithe!  BAHAHA!  Holy Smokes, I can’t imagine a check coming in the offering plate for $46,000,000, can you!?  Now I could definitely imagine how to spend that for the kingdom, I’m just saying!  But, the odds of winning even if you play are greater than getting struck by lightening.  So, I’m not counting on that check.  ha!

But, it does bring up a good question.  What would the financial situation in our church look like if everyone tithed?  Do you know what the stats tell us?  The research tells us that the average church goer only gives about 2.65% of their income per year to further the kingdom of God.  That’s a little over one quarter of what God has asked of us.  So, at Christ’s Church, what would things look like if we all stepped up to that tithing plate?  Well, our 2012 budget is about $525K.  So, in theory, that means we would be able to jack that up to over $2 million.  Imagine what kind of impact we could have in our community, throughout our nation and around the globe with those kinds of funds at our disposal.  Imagine the mortgage being paid off and the ability to hire more staff.  Imagine rather than feeding 75 hungry mouths per week we fed 500.  Imagine maybe building a community center and planting churches around the globe.

If God’s people actually tithed rather than just donated, the possibilities would be endless!

Yeah, one person with $640 million dollars could make quite a difference.  But I have to believe that if a community of believers came together like the first century church and offered all we had at our disposal… the impact we could make would be even greater!

Acts 4:32 – All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had. 

It was obviously a very important aspect of our lives to Jesus.  As a matter of fact, if we taught about money, possessions and stewardship in the church as often as Jesus did when He walked this earth… we would have to teach about money every third Sunday!  Maybe that’s because Jesus knew just how personal our money is to all of us.  That’s why he said where your treasure is… that’s where your heart is.  So, in other words, when it comes to money, Jesus is saying that if you do not follow his request and tithe, then your priority is not God but rather yourself!

What has God blessed you with so that you may bless others?  What’s keeping you from taking that step?  Will you allow yourself to be used as God intended?

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

PS. Don’t forget that you can always give to help fund God’s kingdom online at www.christ’schurchcamden.com

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A Note From Pastor Scott…

I know I’ve said it before, but I’m going to say it again… I LOVE MY CHURCH!!!  And, do you know what makes my church so incredibly awesome?  The people!!!  I have never had the opportunity to serve alongside of such amazing, authentic people.  Thank you!

Someone who missed the service this past Sunday asked me if I could just give them the Cliff Notes version of my message.  I’m sure most would prefer that rather than the real thing, so here ya go…

  • First, if you want to be a true Christ-Follower you must be addicted to Angry Birds!  Get it… love it… Be the Bird!!!  (Okay, I’m just kidding… not really!)
  • Our world and our entire universe is all based off of absolutes.  Time, math, science are all based off of absolutes.  Since God is a god of absolutes… He expects you and I to live under those absolutes.  In other words, stop being wishy-washy!
  • God wants to help you grow intentionally because growth without purpose is pointless!  (John 15:1-8)
  • Godly growth allows you to live beyond your own capacity.
  • “Sometimes God allows what he hates to accomplish what he loves.” – Max Lucado.
  • It is impossible to grow beyond the place where God wants you to grow… unless you detach yourself.  But if you are the branch and He is the vine and you detach yourself… you die!
  • We want to go, go, go and then grow, grow, grow all while God is often times saying whoa, whoa, whoa!  You have to take the time to grow before you can go!  In other words, stop going your own way and start growing God’s way!
  • God never meant for you to GROW through this life alone!

Colossians 1:10 (NLT) - Then the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better.

That is exactly what will happen in your life if you “remain in Him.”  Abide in Christ and He will abide in you.  Surround yourself with other Christ-followers so that you are not attempting to go and grow through this life all alone.  At Christ’s Church we’re promoting ccGroups which will begin their spring quarter the week after Easter.  If you haven’t plugged into a ccGroup yet then be sure to get the flyer this Sunday morning and get in a group.

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

PS. Don’t miss our Good Friday Service of Confession begining at 6:30pm, childcare provided.

PSS. Easter is right around the corner and you’ll have 3 opportunities at Christ’s Church to celebrate.  9:30am, 11:15am & 1:00pm.  Don’t miss it and invite all your friends!!!

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